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The World Of Cam Girls: Common People

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May 01, 2019

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  • Camming is not a normal job.
  • A lot of people kind of get confused about the limits.
  • I see people from all walks of life - builders, bankers, bloggers.
  • Hi, babes. Hi, Callum. How are you?
  • KA-CHING
  • VOICEOVER: I've always wanted to know why my fans subscribe to me.
  • Send a tip and we'll get this bra right off.
  • KA-CHING
  • The weirdest thing that I've ever been asked to do on cam
  • is to do a confession tape admitting that I had sex with dogs.
  • Nope.
  • Who wants to see tits for tips?
  • Come on, guys. KA-CHING
  • I love it. Thank you.
  • I want to know what's going on in their heads,
  • what they really think of porn, camming and the sex industry.
  • BARKING
  • But what they don't know is that they all have one person in common,
  • and that is me.
  • I'm going to be in the next room, listening and watching
  • everything they say.
  • Asking the questions to steer the conversation exactly
  • where I want it to go.
  • I love two things in life,
  • women and money, and I managed to find a way of combining the two,
  • as I run a live sex cam site.
  • Ominous looking table...
  • ..and a banging crowd as well.
  • He sounds so posh!
  • I think my ultimate all-time idol would be Margaret Thatcher.
  • But when it comes to sex,
  • I definitely keep the more conservative side of things
  • at the bedroom door.
  • I work on one of his cam sites.
  • I wonder what he's going to say about me or about the industry.
  • I'm interested now.
  • I'm originally from Poland.
  • Got into cam girling four years ago...
  • ..and I'm single.
  • My name is Matt.
  • Matt? I'm Joe. Hi. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you.
  • He's one of my subscribers.
  • At the moment, I just see them as just a name on my screen.
  • I use cam girls.
  • Sometimes I spend £20 a week.
  • He's probably had a wank over me
  • and now I'm going to come face-to-face with him
  • and maybe even touch the same hand that he's had around his cock.
  • I run a really successful camming website.
  • My dad got me into the industry.
  • It's literally... It's in my DNA.
  • Hello. Hey, how you doing? You all right? Hi. You all right?
  • How's it going? You all right?
  • I'm Olly. Olly? OK.
  • Wicked.
  • I have known him for around seven years.
  • I know him really well!
  • It's not a bad thing.
  • Like, you're not a slag if you're doing it.
  • You're not anything like that.
  • You're trying to make your money in a certain way
  • and that's your way of doing it.
  • At a glance, they all seem so different,
  • but they're not, because they've all got me in common.
  • I'm a feminist, and it makes me really angry when a young girl
  • is exploited and they come into the industry
  • because there's no need for it.
  • Jiggling your titties around live on a webcam and flashing your fanny,
  • then there's definitely... That's sex work to me.
  • I got into cam girling
  • because it's better than just watching porn in general.
  • I'm just going to ease them in with a simple question.
  • All right, guys. "How much porn do you watch?"
  • It's a bit of an out there question, innit? Yeah!
  • I'd say that depends how horny you feel.
  • Put whatever porn you want to watch for like a few minutes,
  • have a quick wank and you're done,
  • but if you're feeling really horny then you just wank for hours,
  • pretty much, ending up doing that.
  • As a mechanic, sometimes you've got so much stress in your head...
  • Of course. ..to get it passed, and so at the end of the day
  • you just go home, have a wank, go to sleep. I'm relaxed.
  • To be honest with you, like, I've got a girlfriend and, like,
  • my best way is in the shower to think about her, bruv.
  • It's the thing that gets me off.
  • Bullshit. I don't think anyone sits there
  • and wanks over their girlfriends.
  • Come on!
  • You watch porn.
  • I love porn. I watch...
  • I use it pretty much every day.
  • Adult online stuff is so instantly accessible
  • to give you what you want, which, from a male point of view,
  • is an orgasm as many times a day as possible.
  • The problem is an orgasm is a bit like crack.
  • It's quite moreish.
  • I wonder if porn warps these guys' perception of sex.
  • In real life it's completely different to what we watch.
  • Course it is. You are wanking and having an orgasm to something
  • you're watching and then you want to re-enact it
  • and go and try what you've watched.
  • I'm not going to lie.
  • What I watch on porn, like, I fully do with my girlfriend, innit?
  • And, like, I'm not going to lie, but I do feel like without porn
  • I would've worked out how to do all this stuff myself.
  • I think his girlfriend's gone, "You WILL mention me!"
  • Porn is there to be a cut above normal sex,
  • and it has to be so people watch it.
  • Guys get a really unrealistic view of what I'm going to do
  • on the cam for them.
  • "Shove your fist up your arsehole!"
  • No.
  • And not for £2 a minute either.
  • So, do you two get a lot of sex?
  • Not as much as I'd like.
  • Not as much as you'd like?
  • I slept with one and that was my ex.
  • I broke up with her, like, six months ago. Six, seven months ago.
  • I had a girlfriend, so we had loads of sex,
  • but after we broke up I just don't do it as much.
  • I think I have enough sex to satisfy myself so that's a blessing.
  • I've got a girlfriend, so... Of course.
  • So, is it open with the girlfriend?
  • Do you, like, bang other pussy?
  • "Do you bang other pussy?"
  • No, no, it's just the one. Oh, OK.
  • Yeah, yeah, I'm loyal like that, yeah. Yeah.
  • I mean, I lost my virginity with an escort,
  • so I've always kept it quite simple. Oh, really?
  • Has that always been your kind of...? Yeah.
  • Then it was the V-card gone.
  • I wonder if he's ever been in love and he's had his heart broken
  • and that's why he uses escorts and webcam.
  • It's a tough one - sex or money?
  • Sex or money - I could never decide which one I like the most.
  • Oh, OK. Oh, yeah. I think I like sex the most, to be fair.
  • I'd go for money,
  • because then you can get as much sex as you want anyway.
  • Where's the evidence? Is that 100% evidence in that,
  • that you'll get a load of girls if you have money?
  • If you pay them £140 an hour to take their pants off, then yeah.
  • Wouldn't you rather just have sex with people
  • that actually wanted you for who you are? No.
  • So far, it's been really, really interesting,
  • but I really think I need to put the pressure on now
  • and find out exactly what they think of cam girls.
  • "Do you watch cam girls?"
  • Yes!
  • Are you a big fan of the cam girls?
  • I do like them.
  • I think I prefer them more than just normal porn.
  • It's just much better cos you've got a contact with a girl
  • in front of you.
  • It's a lot more of a personalised service, isn't it? Yeah.
  • Do you watch cam girls?
  • I used to quite a bit, but, to be honest, now, no is the short answer.
  • Cool, cool.
  • I do get to see quite a lot of content through my site,
  • and also you get to see kind of what idiots men are,
  • in the sense, you know, sometimes we have customers paying
  • hundreds of pounds to do something like watch a girl smoke a cigarette.
  • But when I was younger I did kind of video camera myself having a wank
  • and then watched it back and had another wank over it,
  • so it was kind of like an Inception wank,
  • like a wank within a wank.
  • You filmed yourself wanking... Yeah.
  • ..and you watched it back? Yeah.
  • You know, what's a better ego boost than wanking over your own face?
  • Not literally, but whilst watching yourself cum.
  • So he wanks over himself?
  • That is not a thing.
  • How much money do you spend on cam girls, Matt?
  • It depends, cos I don't use them like literally every day
  • or every week.
  • I do go on them, but I don't spend the money sometimes.
  • Do you find it creepy that I pay money to do that?
  • Not really. To be honest with you, like, yeah,
  • I totally respect people who go on them.
  • We do get a lot of lonely guys on there, on our site,
  • but also generally on all sites, looking for one-on-one interaction.
  • Everybody's got a different fetish and because of that,
  • I think it provides a really good service.
  • I'm kind of, like, I'm one of those foot guys.
  • It's kind of pretty much anything, like, south of the ankle,
  • and it really does it for me.
  • The main one I'd say is like femdom kind of stuff.
  • I don't normally like to talk about my fetishes
  • cos that is not something you do talk about in public.
  • One of them is femdom, which is female domination,
  • and that's what I enjoy the most from all of it.
  • I wouldn't do it in real life.
  • So is it not frustrating never getting to, like, live out
  • your kind of fantasy that you want to try?
  • So, I'd love to try it out, but in real life it's much harder,
  • cos the girl would say, "Oh, you're a weirdo."
  • There is a lot of fetishes out there.
  • I do female domination online.
  • I take pictures. I do videos. "You do what I say!"
  • Never done it in real life to anyone.
  • If I was a woman, I'd be a lot richer than I am now
  • cos I think every woman walking around
  • literally has a cash point between her legs.
  • Those things just spit banknotes out.
  • Yeah, it's so easy for a woman to get money out of whatever.
  • I just want to stop there. Like, you say every woman
  • has a banknote in between their legs. Yeah.
  • Like, women are so different in so many different ways.
  • You know, obviously you see it from a certain side
  • and you're in a certain industry and stuff, but, you know,
  • at the end of the day, they're all human beings like that.
  • I'm really shocked.
  • I'm kind of blown away that he is saying stuff like that about women.
  • I can't wait to go in there.
  • But there's nothing more stupid than a man with an erection,
  • and it's someone that is a prime target to be taken advantage of.
  • I don't think men are exploited in this industry,
  • to be honest with you. I think men exploit themselves.
  • Yes, men do exploit themselves.
  • A man with an erection,
  • if he doesn't have control over that, then that's his problem.
  • You know, those sites aren't forcing anybody to go on them.
  • It really annoys me when they say the man's getting exploited.
  • It's his choice to go on the website. You know how easy it is
  • to manipulate an 18-year-old girl who's just come from school,
  • who's willing to put their body out like that,
  • so they're the ones who end up getting exploited,
  • which is really unfair.
  • When I used to use cam girls, it was entirely sexual.
  • But again, watching it with customers,
  • there's quite a big customer market where it's, say,
  • 40, 50-year-old men, often married,
  • that are either married or divorced and they're very, very lonely.
  • If people want to pay me to talk to me about their problems,
  • then I'll sit there and listen, but we are here to make money.
  • I want to know what they think of me.
  • I want to know whether they think I'm this seedy,
  • up-for-it, nymphomaniac girl.
  • I think there isn't such a thing.
  • I think the actual type of girls we have are all so different, like.
  • They're all human so they all got, like, different things in their head.
  • They're very strong people, to be fair, I think.
  • They're the stronger sex.
  • Yeah, women are beautiful in all sizes, all shapes...
  • I wouldn't go that far.
  • Can't... Well, I think... ..can't be doing with a fatty!
  • There's nothing worse than a fatty. See, again...
  • Like, what about if someone turned around
  • and said you're too skinny or you're too fat?
  • If a woman turned around and said that to you, that...
  • Dunno about all that, though, man. Girl who's a little bit overweight
  • might watch this and think, really offensive... I am watching!
  • Eat less Big Macs. I think that's a disgusting...
  • I really think that's a disgusting view, bruv, I'll be honest with you.
  • I'm really disappointed you would say that.
  • And you're a webcam owner as well.
  • I feel like you should take a look at yourself on that one.
  • That's weird. That's a random question.
  • "You've all got one person in common. Who is it?"
  • Like...
  • What?
  • KNOCK ON DOOR
  • Someone's at the door, innit? Yeah.
  • That's more like a police raid knock, rather than...
  • ..rather than Father Christmas!
  • Oh, my days! Nah!
  • You know what? You represented! No way! You represented!
  • You know I represented, though! You represented! No, honestly.
  • Hi, nice to meet you.
  • Nice to meet you.
  • And you might not recognise me,
  • but I actually work on your website. OK.
  • So you have a fatty on your website!
  • Oh, my God. I didn't know that.
  • But I think you're very rude. Really? You're very rude.
  • You have come across very, very badly.
  • Like, you've put yourself across badly.
  • Considering you own a website,
  • no-one's going to want to work for you.
  • I'd say more...I'd say more honest. It's not honest, though, is it?
  • You could've insulted a lot of people
  • that maybe could have earned you a lot of money.
  • So, Joseph, what has a woman done to you
  • to make you so, like, aggressive towards women,
  • and have that really insulting opinion on someone, you know?
  • I want to know what...have you been hurt?
  • Like, has a girl fucked you over, stamped on your face or something,
  • for you to have this opinion?
  • No, I've never...I've never really kind of done the girlfriend thing,
  • or feelings or that... Do you feel quite intimidated by women?
  • No, not at all. No, no, not remotely.
  • Not even...not even you, Bex. I would say so. I think so.
  • But I would possibly say intimidated by, um...
  • ..emotional kind of feelings, and all that bollocks. Mm.
  • I think it's very weak and indulgent and decadent.
  • And I don't want this to be all about,
  • let's just pick on Joseph, but...
  • I'm a narcissist, I like being picked on.
  • I've never heard of someone wanking off over a video of themselves,
  • so we're both learning things today! It's common. It's really common.
  • It's a mainstream wanking activity.
  • I...I've been in this industry ten years,
  • and I've never heard of anything like that.
  • Maybe have your own cam site where it's just you... Just me!
  • That is my wet dream, right there. Yeah. That's my wet dream.
  • So, Matt, what's made you so self-conscious?
  • I think you're the sweetest guy that's been here,
  • I think you're lovely!
  • What...what makes you think that you can't go up to a girl in a club?
  • Like, what holds you back?
  • People, they...sometimes they are afraid of their fetishes and kinks.
  • They don't want to come out with it in public
  • or talk to their wives or girlfriends.
  • That's why they use cam websites, to ask the cam girl about this,
  • if she can do that for him, because that's what it's about.
  • It's about sexual purposes and sexual frustrations,
  • and that's why they go on these websites, to get themselves out.
  • Yeah. Yeah.
  • Would you let me dominate you? Yeah! That's probably one of the things.
  • I've got some boots on... Hey!
  • But I've never talked about this kind of stuff in...in public.
  • After talking with Bex,
  • I'll try to talk more about my fetishes with the girls.
  • Do you find that you're trapped in camming, at all, Bex, or...?
  • I would never stop doing it.
  • I enjoy it too much. I enjoy...the freeness of it.
  • But I feel like I am, because I wanted to be an actress.
  • And because the job I do, no-one's ever going to take me seriously.
  • And it is a stigma that is completely attached to webcamming
  • and the sex industry.
  • I think I learned a lot today. We're all part of the same industry,
  • and all collaborate and give to it in different ways.
  • But also learned we're all very different people round that table.
  • Would you say that you consider yourself to be a sex worker?
  • There's a fine line between a sex worker,
  • who has sex with men for money, and myself.
  • I mean, nothing to say against escorts,
  • but I don't put myself in that category at all,
  • cos I don't sleep with any of my customers
  • or anyone that talks to me. Yeah.
  • And that's where I draw the line.
  • So I'd like to say that I'm in the sex industry
  • rather than a sex worker.
  • I've definitely not came out of the experience with any shift in opinion
  • or any great kind of epiphany where I've dropped to my knees
  • thinking, "Jesus, Olly is right!"
  • I'm leaving exactly the same person I arrived as.
  • Would you ever date a customer?
  • I think straight up, it would...it would scare me off a little bit.
  • But now I've met you, like, you're a completely normal person,
  • and you subscribe to my site. And that, for me is like, you know...
  • That's...you've changed my perception
  • of men that subscribe to the site. Oh, good! So, yeah.
  • VOICEOVER: Today was a real eye opener for me.
  • You cannot put cam users all in one box.
  • I mean, isn't it a little bit strange that everyone in this room
  • is so different, but everyone has that link?
  • I mean, I've worked with you, I actually use your site,
  • and, obviously, you subscribe.
  • But everyone has, like, a really different opinion
  • on the whole industry.
  • Yes, cos obviously camming brings all sorts of different people.
  • On the cam girls, obviously, we may differ with our opinions,
  • but, you know, we might jerk off to the same girl!
  • Very good point, mate! I mean... Yeah.

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