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‘I Want To Put A Camera In The Room, But I’m Too Scared To Face The Truth,’ Says Man Who’s Convin…

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  • When I was in the military,
  • there in boot camp,
  • she cheated on me.
  • There was a period in 2010 where he went
  • to boot camp and we did break up
  • and I was seeing someone else.
  • I want to be clear about this,
  • in letters he was constantly breaking up with me.
  • Finally I had enough and I just decided
  • to do my own thing.
  • I was honest and I admitted to him
  • that I was seeing someone else.
  • Other than this time,
  • I have never stepped out on Tommy not one time.
  • But he can't let it go.
  • Well Angelique says Tommy is convinced
  • she's been unfaithful and will do anything
  • to catch her in the act.
  • Take a look.
  • Every night when Tommy comes home from work
  • he has a strange routine.
  • He checks the entire house claiming to be looking for a man.
  • The first thing I always do is I look outside.
  • 'Cause we live right on the corner
  • where cars can be parked where it's not noticed.
  • Tommy starts in the kitchen
  • and then he heads to the living room.
  • Then I head straight to the room.
  • I make sure if the door's locked or not.
  • Check the door if it's locked.
  • Usually when it's locked I question her why does she need
  • to lock the door?
  • And then I open the door really fast
  • you know like oh like someone could be in there.
  • He'll come in our room.
  • He'll check the closet.
  • And usually I'll look at her drawers.
  • If sometime I'll just look
  • and make sure she's not hiding anything.
  • Then next thing you know I do it's kind of rude,
  • But I wake her up and I open the blanket just
  • to see what she's wearing.
  • 'Cause one time I caught her wearing something
  • like not for me.
  • This makes me feel very violated.
  • And if he's really paranoid he'll go in our drawer
  • and check how many condoms there is.
  • Then I'll look at the iPad just in case she's using
  • the iPad 'cause I'm still trying to find out
  • what is she using.
  • 'Cause her phone is too clean,
  • it's way too clean.
  • It's almost like damn you know I want to put a camera
  • in the room but I'm too scared to face the truth.
  • Okay so I made
  • a list of your detective like behaviors here.
  • Oh why?
  • Because you're vigilant right?
  • Yeah, yeah.
  • Okay so nightly routine.
  • He inspects the entire house right.
  • He checks the drawers for for sexy lingerie,
  • that maybe you've purchased something you'll wear
  • for somebody not him. Ah huh.
  • And he caught you in this.
  • On the left okay,
  • he caught you in this T-shirt thing and.
  • Ah huh. It's a onesie.
  • Look at the bottom it has like a button.
  • (audience laughing)
  • It doesn't have a button.
  • It doesn't have a button.
  • Oh okay that's for easy access.
  • (audience laughing)
  • That's what you said okay, gotcha, gotcha.
  • Okay 'cause we picked out one
  • we thought would be sexy lingerie,
  • that's on the right.
  • But you think on the left is running a red light?
  • I mean that's sexy right there.
  • You know but that's like.
  • Yeah. Sort of something you know.
  • But he caught you in this? Yeah.
  • Yeah, he didn't catch anything he just saw me wearing
  • a long sleeve onesie. I seen it in
  • the house coming home.
  • And there's no button on the bottom,
  • it's completely closed. He counts the condoms right?
  • Yes. Yeah.
  • Ah and you leave work four or five times?
  • Yeah four or five times,
  • You'll text constantly throughout
  • the shift, right? Yeah.
  • What are doing,
  • where are you,
  • what's going on? Yeah.
  • The total number of incoming calls, 394.
  • The breakdown is as follows,
  • caller Tommy, incoming 64,
  • outgoing 52.
  • Caroline incoming, now that's your mom, right?
  • Yeah. 17, outgoing 30.
  • Family, Violet, brother, sister, dad,
  • incoming 75, outgoing 91.
  • Miscellaneous, doctors, just business,
  • creditors, school, incoming 30, outgoing 34.
  • Total incoming 187,
  • outgoing 207, grand total 394.
  • Why do you say that looks like she scrubbed it?
  • More like.
  • There's not
  • one call missing. It's a lot,
  • it's a lot of things that you got
  • to look at you know. Okay point 'em out to me.
  • Social media you know.
  • No no we're talking about the phone records.
  • You said she cleans her phone records.
  • She scrubs it so you can't find the calls.
  • Yeah the phone record and like
  • whatever she uses she'll clean sweep,
  • like swipe it out and.
  • No, no, no there's not one call missing.
  • We got the printed phone record
  • from the phone company and compared it
  • to her phone log,
  • there was not one call missing.
  • Yeah that's I mean that's right
  • and then there's other things I look at too.
  • No, no, no we're talking about this.
  • You said she cleans her phone records up.
  • She gets rid of calls.
  • Because she's hiding
  • who she's talking to.
  • So we got the printed record from
  • the phone company compared it
  • to what's left on the phone.
  • There was not one call missing.
  • So he's telling you right now
  • that you've been wrong about that.
  • That's good.
  • (crowd applauding)

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A man who says he is certain his wife is being unfaithful says he wants to put a camera in their room. She vehemently denies cheating and says she’s ready to leave him.

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